1:1 Coaching – The Ascent
Deep personal work that rebuilds you from the inside out. This is personal to you. The route is yours. I’m just the guide
For:
The man who knows he’s capable of more — he can feel it — but he isn’t sure what that “more” actually is.
He’s successful in places, quietly unsettled in others. Maybe it’s a limiting belief
Something is off… but he can’t yet see what.
He’s stuck between potential and patterns — and he’s finally ready to stop guessing.
What to Expect:
This isn’t surface-level coaching.
This is pattern-level, identity-level work — the kind that helps you become the man you know you can be.
People come to me not because they’re “broken,” but because they want more:
- ➢ More clarity.
- ➢ More self-awareness.
- ➢ More alignment
- ➢ More purpose
- ➢ More discipline, consistency, and direction
- ➢ More of the identity they’ve always known was possible
They want to perform at their best — mentally, emotionally, physically — and they want a coach who understands the internal and external pressures of real life.
And then… there’s the other side of the work.
Because even high performers have patterns that quietly get in the way
- ➢ Drinking more than they admit
- ➢ Using sex, porn or promiscuity as escape instead of desire
- ➢ Gambling or chasing risk when feeling disconnected
- ➢ Cocaine or stimulants to feel “alive” again
- ➢ Overworking to avoid sitting with themselves
- ➢ Quiet acts of self-sabotage when success gets close
These aren’t moral failings.
They’re strategies — learned, unconscious, often outdated — built to meet a need.
And in The Ascent, we work at the level where those strategies were created.
The Truth Behind the Work
You don’t need to be broken to rebuild.
You don’t need a crisis to upgrade your identity.
You don’t need to hit bottom to rise.
Some men come to remove the behaviours that are holding them back.
Some come to unlock the potential they’ve never fully accessed.
Most come for both — because both play a part in who they’re becoming.
Either way, the destination is the same:
- ➢ Clarity of who you are.
- ➢ Understanding of your real values.
- ➢ Alignment between your actions and your direction.
- ➢ The identity of the man you are becoming — not the one you’ve been performing.
The Rebuild Approach
We don’t judge the behaviour.
We coach the intention beneath the behaviour.
In NLP, every behaviour — even the destructive ones — carries a positive intention.
Our work is to uncover that intention, update the strategy, and give your unconscious mind a more aligned way to meet that need.
Together, we explore:
- ➢ What’s real
- ➢ What’s conditioned
- ➢ What’s protective
- ➢ What’s outdated
- ➢ What’s trying to emerge
This isn’t mindset coaching.
It’s identity coaching.
It’s values coaching.
It’s deep unconscious alignment.
I’ve lived this.
I’ve rebuilt this.
And I know what it really takes.
I don’t choose the route.
I guide you on yours.
Rebuilding is always possible.
What You’ll Get:
You get the full integration of:
- ➢ 100% personalised coaching designed around your story, patterns, and goals.
- ➢ Deep NLP and unconscious transformation work.
- ➢ Behavioural pattern detection.
- ➢ Tools to rewrite limiting beliefs and outdated identity structures.
- ➢ Clarity exercises that anchor your values into action.
- ➢ Continuous accountability and support between sessions.
- ➢ Real-world integration — not just insight, but change.
- ➢ AND two decades of real-world experience seeing what breaks people… and what rebuilds them.
How It’s Delivered:
Private one-to-one sessions (online or in person) at an elite level of coaching.
Expect deep conversations, challenging exercises, and moments of silence that hit harder than words.
Outcomes:
- ➢ Freedom from limiting beliefs, outdated identities and emotional blocks
- ➢ A clear, purposeful “why” that fuels your decisions.
- ➢ New confidence in who you are and how you show up.
- ➢ Transformation that feels real — because you did the work.
This is not therapy. It’s true work.
You’ll need to show up ready to dig deep — because change doesn’t happen by talking about it.
What you need for the climb:
- ➢ Brutal honesty — with yourself first.
- ➢ A willingness to face, supportedly, the things you’ve avoided.
- ➢ The courage to let go of the story you’ve been telling yourself.
- ➢ The understanding that this will be uncomfortable — and that’s where the change happens.
- ➢ If you’re not ready to do the work, don’t come.
This is for the man who knows he’s capable of more but doesn’t yet know what’s holding him back.
